SUNNY'S SIDE UP!
Sunny Day, KIU’s very own Cyber Love Connector, answers your questions, queries and heartaches,
as well as giving sound advice about how to find that ‘special someone’ on the Internet.
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Dear Sunny,
I'm embarrassed to confess my problem, but if there's one person who can sort me out, it's Sunny Day! So here goes; I have been doing 'cyber sex' with a lady I've met on the internet. When we aren't 'cybering', we get along really well as friends. I guess you could say we've 'clicked'. The thing is, during our 'cyber sex sessions', I have adopted a sort of Dominant role with her. She told me she was into the whole Dom/sub, S&M scene, and because I liked her and wanted to keep her interested, I happily played along. She calls me her 'King of Darkness' and is goading me to get more and more extreme with her when we're 'cybering'. The problem is, we've arranged to MEET at the end of September! She expects me to show up with whips, chains and nipple-clamps! I don't even know what nipple clamps ARE, Sunny! And I have no interest in doing this S&M stuff in real life. It just isn't my scene. I'm afraid that if I tell her I've just been playing along because I l
Sunny, help a guy out here!
Scared in Chicago.
Dear King of Darkness
Well my advise to you is; KING; IT`S TIME TO PUT THE LIGHTS ON!
You have carried this too far, and it is time for you to fess up, tell her in no uncertain terms that you will play on occasion your phantom ‘King of Darkness’ role, but NOT to the degree that she wants it.
On a practical note, will you be flying to Vegas by plane? King, think of airport security whilst you’re dragging chains behind you, and imagine the embarrassment when you screech going through security detectors and have to explain your nipple clamps! No, no no. Do not put your self through this turmoil. Bring her out into the light !!!!!!
If YOU have a Cyber Love Connector question, email Sunny! She will always answer.
‘That’s What I’m Here For!’
sunnyday@kittensinunderpants.com
And remember, whether your Internet Romance is rosy or wretched,
KEEP YOUR SUNNY SIDE UP!