SUNNY'S SIDE UP!
Sunny Day, KIU’s very own Cyber Love Connector, answers your questions, queries and heartaches,
as well as giving sound advice about how to find that ‘special someone’ on the Internet.
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Dear Sunny,
I have been emailing a man on the internet who seemed very nice. We are both in our fifties, and Bruce seemed like a very charming and intelligent man. When we got around to the picture sending stage, I sent him a few of myself dressed rather glamorously - not 'sexily', Sunny, just rather 'chic'. Anyway, this man (Bruce) started saying that the person in the pictures wasn't 'me', that I was 'pretending' to be this pretty lady and that I have ‘woven a fantasy world around myself'. Sunny, I was livid. I told my grown-up daughter, who was so livid that she found his email address on the letter I forwarded to her and wrote to him herself, putting him straight.
Bruce apologised so sweetly that I forgave him, and we became friends again. A few weeks later, he wanted to go on the Web Cam with me. Sunny, I am very wary of doing the Web Cam, and have NEVER used my Cam for anything 'naughty'. I was looking forward to chatting to Bruce in 'real time' and putting a face to his always lovely words.
Imagine my surprise when, as soon as he turned on his Cam, he got his c*ck out and started waving it in the camera! The whole experience left me quite startled, and has put me off using the Internet for romance.
My question is this; is Bruce's behaviour 'normal'? And how can I avoid this happening again in the future.
Sincerely,
Shocked in Florida
Dear Shocked,
My, my, my! Well, as Sunny would say; ‘Smile! You’re on Candid Camera!’ Well, my dear, this is the problem with the internet, isn’t it. It brings problems as well as benefits – and one is the dreaded WEB CAM.
I believe you gave this man every chance, and to turn on the Cam waving his c*ck at you….Well! You just have to LAUGH about it. I can well imagine your shock, but look at it this way; can you imagine the thought and ‘prep work’ that went into it?! Getting ‘IT’ ready for screening – wondering if the pixels were right, and what about the COLOUR?!
The man is a fool, and I would suspect a bit of a ‘flasher’. No more raincoats – those days have gone! Now it’s just a Cam and a hook up!
Move on! And next time a man asks you to put his Cam on, I suggest you shockhim FIRST before he shocks you, and make your sexual expectations so OUTRAGEOUS concerning his c*ck that he will quietly put it away before you clap eyes on it, and shuffle back to bed.
If YOU have a Cyber Love Connector question, email Sunny! She will always answer.
‘That’s What I’m Here For!’
sunnyday@kittensinunderpants.com
And remember, whether your Internet Romance is rosy or wretched,
KEEP YOUR SUNNY SIDE UP!